You. Me. Everyone who wants to mature as a follower of Christ and be an effective tool in His mighty hand needs to spend time learning about Him, which is best accomplished through personal quiet time. But ONLY you, or ONLY me… If husband and wife sit together and do separate devotions, that’s great. But it is important that they not interrupt each other’s study with whatever God is revealing to them at the moment. That is great practice for couples and family bible study (which I highly recommend), but this is personal quiet time and it is important that it remain personal.
Personal quiet time consisting of intense and honest prayer coupled with active bible study. Seeking God through his words and allowing Him to speak to you through your thoughts.